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Si vous saviez comme je d\u00e9teste cette formulation ! Non, je ne prends et ne prendrai jamais le dessus sur un individu avec lequel j\u2019\u00e9change, qu\u2019il soit humain ou animal. Je pr\u00e9f\u00e8re mille fois cr\u00e9er une relation de compr\u00e9hension<\/strong>, d\u2019\u00e9change<\/strong> et de coop\u00e9ration<\/strong> \u00e0 une relation bas\u00e9e sur la force, sur la contrainte.<\/span><\/p>\n

Qu\u2019est-ce que \u00e7a veut dire \u201cprendre le dessus\u201d ? Vous pourrez trouver plusieurs d\u00e9finitions et synonymes :\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201c1. Mettre en d\u00e9route un adversaire. 2. Prendre l\u2019avantage.\u201d<\/em> [1]<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c<\/span>Vaincre, dominer un adversaire.<\/span><\/em>\u201d<\/em> [2]<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n

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Schweppes qui a choisit de se mettre en hauteur pour aller voir Flora<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n

\u00c9couter<\/h3>\n
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C\u2019est ce genre de relation que vous souhaitez avoir avec votre chien, votre chat, les humains qui vivent avec vous ? Personnellement, ce n\u2019est pas ce que je cherche. Toundra, Chopin, Kovou, Rousseau ne sont pas nos adversaires, ils sont nos compagnons de route. Nous les acceptons tels qu\u2019ils sont et travaillons sur les points qui peuvent poser probl\u00e8me. Toundra n\u2019aime pas les manipulations forc\u00e9es, je ne prends pas le dessus sur elle. Nous nous entra\u00eenons ensemble<\/strong>, nous faisons des soins coop\u00e9ratifs<\/strong>, je lui laisse le choix<\/strong> (sauf urgence bien s\u00fbr !), je l\u2019\u00e9coute, elle m\u2019\u00e9coute<\/strong> et nous progressons ensemble. Chopin n\u2019aime pas qu\u2019on le touche quand il se repose, nous le laissons simplement tranquille. Nous lui avons appris \u00e0 aller dans son panier quand il est g\u00ean\u00e9 par nous sur le canap\u00e9, et c\u2019est magique : il le fait maintenant de lui-m\u00eame !\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cC\u2019est lui qui a pris le dessus sur vous\u201d cette phrase que j\u2019entends parfois de clients qui m\u2019appellent en dernier recours, qui n\u2019en peuvent plus et \u00e0 qui on sert ce discours si culpabilisant : \u201cC\u2019est votre faute, il\/elle a pris le dessus sur vous\u201d. Je ne vois dans cette formulation qu\u2019un aveu d\u2019\u00e9chec : \u201cJe ne sais pas d\u2019o\u00f9 vient le probl\u00e8me pr\u00e9cis\u00e9ment donc je vais dire que cela vient du fait qu\u2019il faut remettre le chien \u00e0 sa place, lui montrer qui est le ma\u00eetre.\u201d.\u00a0 Traduction : on va casser le chien, ne pas \u00e9couter ce qu\u2019il dit, le passer en d\u00e9tresse acquise, cr\u00e9er une bombe \u00e0 retardement.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n

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\"Coop\u00e9ration
Toundra, qui choisit volontairement de venir voir ce que je fais<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n

Comprendre<\/h3>\n
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Pourquoi ne pas juste chercher la vraie raison du comportement du chien ? Un chien qui grogne et ne se laisse pas manipuler n\u2019est pas un chien qui prend le dessus sur vous. C\u2019est un chien qui vous dit clairement (et \u00e7a c\u2019est cool!) qu\u2019il n\u2019est pas \u00e0 l\u2019aise et veut que vous cessiez. Observez, apprenez et mettez en place un plan d\u2019entra\u00eenement pour pouvoir faire ces manipulations sans pousser votre compagnon dans ses retranchements. Faites vous accompagner par quelqu\u2019un qui vous respecte et qui respecte ce que dit votre chien<\/strong>, quelqu\u2019un qui conna\u00eet les signaux d\u2019apaisement, qui vous apprendra \u00e0 d\u00e9tecter les signaux de stress de votre chien. Quelqu\u2019un qui vous guidera et vous apprendra \u00e0 coop\u00e9rer avec votre chien.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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[1] <\/span>Prendre le dessus sur : d\u00e9finition et synonyme de prendre le dessus sur en fran\u00e7ais<\/span><\/i>. (s. d.-b). TV5MONDE – Langue Fran\u00e7aise. <\/span>https:\/\/langue-francaise.tv5monde.com\/decouvrir\/dictionnaire\/p\/prendre%20le%20dessus%20sur#:%7E:text=Vaincre%2C%20dominer%20un%20adversaire<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

[2] <\/span>Larousse, \u00c3. (s. d.). <\/span>D\u00e9finitions : dessus – Dictionnaire de fran\u00e7ais Larousse<\/span><\/i>. Larousse. https:\/\/www.larousse.fr\/dictionnaires\/francais\/dessus\/24678#178732<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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